Shoot Your Shot

I'm going to let you in on a little secret about me:

I love LOVE!! 


I love romantic comedies. 


I love men who love and support their women openly and vice versa. 


I love relationships that develop into strong marriages and families. 


Again, I just love love😍♥️.

With all that being said though, I'm single. Mainly because I'm picky, but also because I'm cautious and men tend to be scared/intimated by my personality. 

(And I don't know why🙄) 

But anyway lol. 


A couple nights ago, I was scrolling down my IG timeline, and this picture popped up: 


I was going to just keep scrolling and ignore it, but it got me thinking...

I understand that men deal with fear and insecurity just like women do, but men, y'all gotta stop being scared! If you truly believe that God has shown you that she's your wife, then it's your responsibility to come to her and let her know what your intentions are. Stop being afraid of rejection. She might actually know already, but she's waiting on you to say something!


And if you don't know if she's your wife, but you're interested in her, you better


Even if she doesn't feel the same way, that frees you to move on so you're not stuck in 'I should've' or 'I wish I would've'.

Ladies, if you want to be approached, make sure you're giving off the right vibe. If you look like you don't want to be spoken to, you won't be. If you're bold enough, step to him and start a conversation. Some of the best friendships start with a simple conversation, so always be open to those.


Ok y'all. I'm done. I hope this helps and sparks some new and positive situations. Don't be afraid. You got this♥️

And I want to be invited to the wedding 😊